Christmas Questions

So the Holly Season is fast approaching and it is truly a great time to be a Grandmother, BUT there are challenges, issues and questions on how to handle the season with the least amount of work, stress and a drain on your strength and your retirement fund. When I was working full time as a librarian, it was fun to give my favorite books to each grandchild. That was when I had a handful of little ones. Now I have 33 and 2 more on the way so we have to rethink this practice, especially now with every cent assigned to its own pocket. I have talked to so many women who have creatively handled these problems, that I request the input of those who have walked this path to share your ideas. What works, what has been fun for you and your children, what about those who are lonely during the holidays, what are some meaningful activities that bring the true spirit of the season into your family, how can you give physically and still survive economically. What a wealth of information there is out there! .Share your successes
Subjects: Gifting, Recipes, Family Home Evening Ideas, Sharing your family with their In-Laws, Out of town, Knowing what would be appreciated....

Keeping up

Time distance and finances sometimes keep me from the close relationship that I want to have with my grandkids. Electronics are my best ally. When Allison moved to New Zealand, we hooked up with a web cam. It was one of the first out and not perfect, but we could see each other in real time and build memories of who grandma is and that she cares about me, even far away. The same device was a blessing while I served a mission in Brazil. After a busy day, it was a great relief to dial in to the everyday life of my little ones at home. Now we have blogging, facebook, texting and sending instant photos over the phone. I am the worst at texting but working at it. By the time I get 10 words down, I could have said volumes on the phone, but it it their medium and by using it, I show I am in their world, on their facebook, up with them, side by side. Grandmothers should not be relegated to the past. We are ahead of them and they should know it. My mother in law, Eva, always told me, "If I didn't think I was smarter than they are, I would have given up long ago" It may take some work to show it, but yes, my dear little ones, I am.